This fabricated version of themselves requires a delusional reality of life itself, necessarily spinning the onus and responsibility back on others, rather than employing the essential self-reflection, growth and learning that may be able to lead them out of pathological narcissism. Narcissists believe they are above reproach and immune to other people’s criticism or scrutiny of them. This is all connected with the lack of empathy that narcissists are so famously known for – the inability to step into someone’s else’s shoes and view life from their perspective.Īs a False Self, narcissists lie profoundly to themselves also – they have a narrative going on in their fabricated inner world as to what they believe they want as reality. Not being honest also means not being responsible for actions or accountable, as well as severely lacking the ability to understand how one’s pathological actions, including lies, affect others. The truth is pathological lying is about ‘not being real’. The narcissist is trying to be someone else, a fictitious character who gleans feelings of significance from others because their self-esteem is so devoid on the inside. Meaning an insecure ego construction that has forfeited living as an authentic self, because of believing this self is not enough – not enough to have needs met or be fulfilled as itself. They don’t stick to the truth and there is one main reason for this – they are a False Self. One thing you can be certain of with a narcissist is that they lie.
#NARCISSISTS ARE PATHOLOGICAL LIARS TV#
In this Thriver TV episode, it is my greatest wish that I have provided you with some powerful pointers that can help you unravel the rubbish and get to the truth regarding whether this person is someone with high-integrity or not. So … how do we make sure that we don’t go through (or continue to experience) someone’s pathological lying, putting our heart, life and sanity at risk? Sadly, for most of us, we gave the narcissist the benefit of the doubt, we wanted to believe them. There is a very pertinent saying – that when we become a detective in our relationship that things are very wrong. The truth is this: we can’t have a safe and healthy relationship with a pathological liar because trust, faith and belief are smashed. Or have you received point blank evidence that this person is a liar? Have you experienced events and circumstances that leave you feeling dubious as to whether or not you can trust them?
Have you ever been in a situation with someone where you have no idea whether you are being told the truth or not?
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